Saturday, December 28, 2013

The Adventure of Saying Goodbye to 2013 and the Girl in the Red Bug

I truly believe that people and moments are put in our lives at certain times to deliver a message to us. This is the time of year where many of us are assessing the soon-to-be past year and what we hope our new year will become; my moment and message came at Kirklands Home Store, while picking up a picture frame.

The sales associates that were assisting me we’re asking how my Christmas was and if I have any new year’s resolutions. Most normally, I would have had the pat answer of workout regularly, lose weight, etc. etc. But, I have been really thinking about my 2013 and what I want my 2014 to look like; so my response, “To be more participative in my life.” I received a somewhat inquisitive look, I went on to explain (to these complete strangers), that my 2013 wasn’t bad, but that I felt like it was just flatlined. I was not an active participant in my life, but yet just a passenger in the year of 2013.

One of the sales associates shared her own story with me, she had lost her job at one of the larger banks, and through that, she took the time to join a gym, get herself healthy, and made decisions on where to focus her life. And there, friends, was my message, right there in Kirklands, provided to me by a complete stranger. What an absolute gift! Don’t you love it when those moments happen?

I have been pondering 2013 for the last several months. I had high hopes at the beginning of the year, I had solid goals, in which I followed the KISS methodology (Keep It Simple Stupid), so that I could actually accomplish them; but low and behold by February any goals, motivation, joy; pretty much everything went to hell in a hand basket (a phrase I have never fully understood, but seems appropriate when discussing 2013). I watched, as I just sat back and became apathetic to my life; I experienced depression, stress, horrible neck and back pain. This is not to say that I have not experienced these emotions, or physical ailments before in my life, obviously life happens and and we all experience highs and lows, but I found myself less able to shake it off, or to have the ability to kick myself in the butt to move forward. Challenging needless to say; but an opportunity for a lesson, no doubt. I have learned many lessons throughout the year and now it is time to apply those lessons. I hope to share my journey with you throughout 2014 in this blog.

So, no lofty goals, or big resolutions for 2014; just three very simple things to focus on,

  • be an ACTIVE participant in my life
  • if it (whatever “it” is) doesn’t bring joy to my life, or those around me, REMOVE IT!
  • celebrate, uplift, and fully those in my life

I wish each of you joy beyond what you can imagine in 2014. Be active, celebrate, uplift and LOVE!

Until the next time,
The Girl in the Red Bug

Wednesday, August 21, 2013

The Adventures of the Scale and the Girl in the Red Bug





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One of the biggest struggles of my life has been my struggle with my weight and emotional eating. For most of my adult years, I have not openly admitted, or really talked about my "food issues." I suppose, I felt somewhat weak, and to a degree, a level of shame. Shame, that I have let food and my weight dictate much of what has occurred, or in some instance not occurred,  in my adult life. Even as I am sitting and writing this blog, I still question whether or not I  will actually post it. Will I be willing to share and openly talk about one of my biggest cruxes in my life? Am I willing to be that transparent and open? I guess that time will tell.

If you are reading this blog and you have never experienced struggles with your weight, or using "something," to fill a void, or fix an emotion I hope that my words may provide insight into the struggles and heart of someone that does.

Until recently, I have always somewhat made jokes about my food issues; but as they say behind every joke, is a level or seriousness and truth. But, as I have shared in previous blogs, and on Facebook, I am trying to focus on being a healthier me and in order to do that, I need to get a handle on this food thing.

Food is such a funny thing; obviously we need it to nourish our bodies for fuel but at a deeper level it can be so much more. Food for me, has been a symbol of love, warmth,  sharing, and caring. Sharing good food is a way to connect and bond with people, to a degree it is sharing of ones self. Over time, as life became stressful, or emotions ran high (or sometimes VERY low), I have used food to try to capture that feeling of love and warmth, even if only temporarily. As with so much in life, that momentary feeling didn't last. So what happens when the feeling is gone? Yup, you got it, I continued to try to recapture with more food. Now, for me, my food issues weren't daily;  they were (are) truly dependent on my circumstances, mood and external environment; so many factors that are rolled into who I am. So, I would say my food issues are, perhaps, more subtle. But, I can say you can probably judge where I am, with me, by my pant size; you get the idea! 

But, something exciting has recently occurred, which has made me realize a shift has happened in my journey to being a healthier me. Recently, in one of my more stressful days, I wanted to eat a bag of gummy bears - not just the small package, but the industrial size bag of gummy bears that  you get at World Market. But,  instead of doing that, I went to the gym and did cardio. Now for me, that is a HUGE shift. 

Realistically, emotional eating will probably continue to be an issue for me throughout my life; however, I am beginning to feel like I have more control over it and more importantly I am aware! HUGE! Awareness = power; power to be a happier, healthier me! Oh and power to perhaps buy a fabulous new pair of jeans!

What things are you doing to be a happier, healthier you? I look forward to hearing about your journey and adventures, please feel free to share.

I will leave you with a quote I found by Drew Carey, that I think sums this post up quite nicely, "Eating crappy food isn't a reward -- it's a punishment." 

Until the next time....The Girl in the Red Bug
















Tuesday, July 30, 2013

The Adventure of Time and the Girl in the Red Bug


"Time marches on and sooner or later you realize it is marching across your face." 
                                                                                Truvy Jones - Steel Magnolias

Aging is one of the most interesting aspects of life. Most of us don't want to 
do it, in fact we fight it kicking and screaming, but the alternative to 
aging...well, it's grim prospect to say the least.

So, how do we handle this thing we call aging? How does one handle all the 
creaking & cracking every time you get out of a chair, finding hair in places 
that you never had it before, or hearing, "oh yay, my mom wears that too!" 

In my 20's, I always said I would age gracefully; you know  not worry about the 
inevitable shifting & drifting, the wrinkles, the graying hair; but now being 
well into my 48th year of life, I know that this is an absolute crock of crap!  
I am prescribing to Dolly Parton's methodology of aging, "if it is sagging, 
bagging or dragging; i  am going to nip it, tuck it, or suck it!" 

Ok, So Dolly's methodology may be a bit extreme, and a little pricey to say the 
least; but I want to be the best "insert age here," that I can be! 

So, if we can't afford Dolly's method, what are some things we can do to make 
this whole aging thing a bit easier? Here are some things I have identified that 
work for me,

1. Exercise: Find something that you love to do and do it! Make it a priority in 
your schedule. I love going to boot camp, I love the camaraderie, the laughter, 
the sometime tears. It brings me a sense of being alive and joy.

2. Eat healthy - incorporate a new recipe into your cooking, try something 
completely outside of your normal routine. If you don't like to cook, try a new 
restaurant. Typically I am not a fan of Indian cuisine, but while on a recent 
business trip, I tried an Indian restaurant and it was absolutely delicious - by 
far my most favorite meal of the trip.

3. Continue to surround yourself with people that are younger than you; feed 
off their energy, learn their interests, listen to their stories, what's 
important to them.

4. Continue to surround yourself around people older than you! Talk with them. 
Learn from them. Listen...we are all headed in the same general direction in 
life!

5. Love! Love freely, openly and often. Let those you love know that you love 
them, not just by saying it (although what better words can you hear!), but show 
them by your actions! Love, love, love!

And lastly, LAUGH...not just laugh, but LAUGH where you think you are going to 
pee your pants,  or snort your drink out through your nose! Laugh at least once a 
day, it is one of the most freeing and liberating things we can do! It is truly 
a gift!

These are just a few things that are making aging manageable for me. What are 
some things you do to help you with the aging process? 

One last quote, to leave you with, "smile, it increases your face value." 
                                                                                  Truvy Jones - Steel Magnolias

Until the next time...The Girl in the Red Bug

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

The Adventure of Lifestyles Changes and the Girl in the Red Bug


Wow! It has been over two months since my last posting! It seems like every time I sit down to write, I am at a loss for what I want to say...although as always, I feel like I have a lot to say. I love writing and find it so therapeutic, so it always makes me a little sad when I don’t take the time to write consistently.

The new year has started out positively, I have been making some changes, on a personal level, that I feel  are sticking and I am noticing a change. I am one of those instant gratification people, which can be detrimental to setting and completing goals; especially, when it comes to diet and exercise.

I am continuing to train for my first 1/2 marathon, which I will be completing in 18 days. I will be participating in the Lost Dutchman Half Marathon on February 17 - which also happens to be my 48th birthday. I feel like this is a great way to celebrate my birthday, and in some way symbolic; symbolic of what I am not quite sure. Training has been going well. I kind of fell of the map, with training, during the holidays and put myself much further behind than I should have been, but I met with our Wellness Coach at work, and she helped me pen out a training schedule that I have been sticking with. It feels great to see the check marks on my plan, showing that I have completed my training sessions.

I am very excited about the 1/2, but also quite nervous. During my training runs, I have been using the Jeff Galloway method - which is a run walk method. It has helped with my times and allows me run to longer distances. So, we will see what I have to report on February 18...after the run!

Something else I am SUPER excited about is a dietary change that I recently made. I have switched to a primarily vegan diet. It has been one of the easiest changes I have ever made, amazingly enough. And, I will say, I haven’t felt this good in years, and it’s only been a little over a week; talk about instant gratification. I am not as lethargic as I was, and my breathing is clearer than it was. 

I have been trying new recipes and cooking at home more. I am also more organized with my breakfasts and lunches during the work week. It is such a great feeling to wake up in the morning and have everything organized for my day.

I have promised to share the recipes I have been making, so here they are. They are not original recipes, but ones I found off the internet. The first meal I made was a wonderful Vegetable Quinoa Chili. I found this recipe on, http://www.twopeasandtheirpod.com/vegetarian-quinoa-chili/.

Vegetarian Quinoa Chili
Yield: Serves 10-12
Prep Time: 10 minutes
Cook Time: 45 minutes
Total Time: 55 minutes

This hearty chili is made with beans, vegetables, and quinoa. Meat lovers and vegetarians will love this chili!
ingredients:
1/2 cup quinoa, rinsed
1 cup water
1 tablespoon olive oil
1 small onion, chopped
3 cloves garlic, minced
1 jalapeno pepper, diced
1 large carrot, peeled and chopped
2 celery stalks, chopped
1 green bell pepper, chopped
1 red bell pepper, chopped
1 medium zucchini, chopped
2 (15 ounce) cans black beans, drained and rinsed
1 (15 ounce) can red kidney beans, drained and rinsed
3 (15 ounce) cans diced tomatoes
1 (15 ounce) can tomato sauce
2-3 tablespoons chili powder, depending on your taste (we used 3)
1 tablespoon ground cumin
Salt and black pepper, to taste
Optional toppings: green onions, avocado slices, cheese, sour cream, Greek yogurt, chips, crackers, etc.
directions:
1. In a medium sauce pan, combine the quinoa and water. Cook over medium heat until water is absorbed, about 15 minutes. Set aside.
2. In a large pot, heat the olive oil over high heat. Add the onion and cook until tender, about 5 minutes. Stir in garlic, jalapeƱo, carrot, celery, peppers, and zucchini. Cook until vegetables are tender, about 10 minutes.
3. Add the black beans, kidney beans, tomatoes, and tomato sauce. Stir in the cooked quinoa. Season with chili powder, cumin, salt, and black pepper. Simmer chili on low for about 30 minutes. Serve warm.
Note-garnish the chili with green onions, avocado slices, cheese, sour cream/Greek yogurt, chips, crackers, if desired. This chili freezes well.
The next recipe was a Vegan Veggie Lasagna. I found this recipe on Food.com at the following link, http://www.food.com/recipe/vegan-veggie-lasagna-115553.
Vegan Veggie Lasagna
Ingredients:
8 ounces lasagna noodles, cooked and drained
1/2 cup tomato sauce

Tofu Mixture (from How it all Vegan)
14 ounces extra firm tofu
1/4 cup soymilk
1 teaspoon dried oregano
2 teaspoons dried basil
1 teaspoon salt
2 tablespoons lemon juice
2 garlic cloves, minced
1 small onion, minced
2 cups spinach, chopped

Veggie Mixture
1/4 cup olive oil
1 medium sweet red pepper, julienned
8 ounces fresh mushrooms, sliced
2 small zucchini, cut into 1/4 inch slices
2 medium carrots, sliced very thin (or shredded)
1 1/2 cups of your favorite tomato sauce 
1/2 cup water

Directions:

1. Preheat over to 350 degrees.
2. In a blender or food processor, combine the tofu, soy milk, oregano, basil, salt,  
lemon juice, garlic, and onion. Blend until the mixture has the consistency of ricotta cheese.
3. Stir in the chopped spinach and set aside.
4. In a large saucepan, saute the red pepper, mushrooms, zucchini, carrots in the oil until crisp-tender. (Feel free to add any other veggies that you like. I just use the ones listed as a starting point.).
5. Stir in the tomato sauce and water.
6. Bring to boil, then cover, reduce heat and simmer for 30 minutes, stirring occasionally. (If you find that the veggie mix is too thin, uncover for last 5 minutes.).
7. Cover bottom of lasagna pan with 1/2 cup tomato sauce.
8. Layer with lasagna noodles, trimming to fit, if needed.
9. Cover with a layer of 1/2 the tofu mixture, then layer of noodles, then layer of 1/2 the veggie mixture, then layer of noodles, then remaining tofu mixture, another layer of noodles, and then top with the remaining veggie mixture.
10. Bake, uncovered for 30-35 minutes. Remove from oven and let stand 5-10 minutes before cutting and serving.

NOTE: I made my own spaghetti sauce, but you could use jarred sauce.

I hope that if you try these recipes, that you enjoy them as much as I did.

Until the next time....
The Girl in the Red Bug

Sunday, November 4, 2012

The Adventure of the Non-Adventure and the Girl in the Red Bug


It has been a bit since my last post....my most recent adventure...getting over some bronchial type sickness that seemed to linger for weeks! Ughhh! So miserable. I am finally feeling better after about three weeks of my "adventure!"

Needless to say, my training came to a complete halt, which was very discouraging. I feel like, in general, with my exercise and eating, for everyone one step forward I take, I go back three! It's very frustrating and really plays with my mind and my spirit! One setback really seems to throw me into a funk. Being sick, along with the stresses of work have wrecked havoc on me!  I have felt defeated on all levels of my life! Does anyone else feel this way, or is it just me?

Fortunately, a night of laughter and talking with some wonderful girlies, seemed to feed my soul and get me back on track. I found a Groupon for Yoga Deva in Gilbert. I got an incredible deal and signed up for month of unlimited yoga sessions. My first session was last Thursday. I took the Warm Yoga, which is an alternative to hot yoga. The class is an hour and 15 minutes in length and I felt awesome afterwards. There is nothing like going to an actual yoga studio for yoga vs. the regular gym. It is a whole different feeling when I am not listening to the racquetball balls hitting the wall, and the loud grunts of the players, when I am in the Child's Pose. In addition to signing up for Yoga Deva, I have revamped my training program. I have broken it down into smaller races. I am signing up for the 12ks of Christmas again this year, and my goal is to run the 12k, instead of the 6k, like I did last year. This will help with preparing for the Huntington Beach Half Marathon that I am shooting for in February 2013. I think using yoga as my cross-training is going to help significantly with the tightness I constantly experience in my hamstrings and will also help strengthen my core, which is horribly weak.

Adding some simple tracking tools to my revamped routine should help in keeping focused and motivated. Of course, I am still placing $1.00 in my workout jar, every time I work out, I do love seeing the green in the jar grow. Also, I put a whiteboard calendar on the fridge with my weekly workout schedule. I have planned my running time and cross-training through the month of November. All steps in the right direction.

One little adventure I did have during my little bout of sickness was the Neon Splash Dash 5k. I had signed Masen and I up for the run, prior to being sick, so there was no way I was having us drop out. There were thousands of people at the run. We started in waves and made our way through fours different "splash" stations where we were sprayed with various neon colors. It was a cool run and definitely one I would like to do again in the future. Until the next time...The Girl in the Red Bug

Monday, October 1, 2012

The Adventure of Week 2 Half Marathon Training and the Girl in the Red Bug




So, this has not been a very good training week at all. I have had ZERO energy and am really trying to identify what the root of the problem has been; so far, I have not been able to pinpoint the issue. All I can say is I am thankful that I have more time than scheduled out to fully train for the half-marathon. However, I don't want to get in that mindset, it could potentially derail the whole program and goal.

Everyone I talk to, that has done any type of distance running, talks about the mental piece of running and the importance of training your mind. Our bodies are capable of so much more than our minds allow them to do. I understand there is so much more to training than just logging miles; it will be a balance of physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, diet...it encompasses us on every level.

This week...the good, the bad and the ever so ugly!

Day 1 - Rest Day, I definitely was an overachiever on rest day - probably not the area I should be overachieving in.

Day 2 - Treadmill Run - almost 1.5 miles (not good - supposed to be 3 miles). I felt tortured!

Day 3 - was a scheduled cross-training day and I......didn't workout! Ughhhhh, my mojo is off.

Day 4 - scheduled run....and you guessed it, didn't do it! Feeling pretty low about the progress so far this week. I am seeing another "Pull your head out of.....well, you know" talk with myself.  Get committed! Sheesh!

Day 5 - rest day! Rest day? I haven't done anything to rest from, but I will go with it. And actually am thinking now I deserve it. I volunteered at St. Vincent DePaul's, this morning, with my team at work. Lots of unloading trucks, moving furniture, and arranging and organizing; after 4 1/2 hours, I was pooped!

Day 6 - Does a trip to Ikea and walking around opening night of Mighty Mite football count as cross-training? I didn't think so, but thought I'd through it out there!

Day 7 - The day isn't over, but so far no run

Wow! There is nothing like humiliation to inspire a person to get back on track with their training program. With every detail I wrote, I was embarrassed by my lack of commitment for the week's training, but oddly inspired and refocused at the same time! I am looking forward to a much more successful and healthy upcoming week.

Until the next time....The Girl in the Red Bug

Thursday, September 27, 2012

The Adventure of Being Blessed and the Girl in the Red Bug


This last weekend, my sis and I were getting our eyebrows done at the esthetician we go to on a regular basis. I love going to our esthetician, not only because I leave feeling    like I have beautiful skin and eyebrows (you know the eyebrows are the picture frame for your face, right!?), but also because of the soulful conversations we have. I wrote on my Facebook page, afterwards, that there are those people you interact with that you just feel the love of Christ oozing from them, she is one of those people.

When I say what I am about to write, I will put out my disclaimer that I am not trying to offend anyone, or hurt anyone's feelings, because I sadly categorize myself in with this statement (there, disclaimer out of the way!)

I have met many people throughout my lifetime that proclaim to be Christians, they go church and Bible Study regularly, many can even quote the Bible, often drawing their words like Cherry Valance drew his pistol in Red River. They proudly display their church bumper stickers on their cars, while practically running you off the road (probably one of the main reasons I have never put a sticker on my car - seriously what representation would I be giving? Ok, I'm from California, I have a honking issue!) They say their mission in life is to preach the gospel and reach others, all in the same breath as they are bullying those around them, or saying hurtful things. Now, as I said in my disclaimer, I am not saying I am perfect Christian, because anyone that knows me, knows that I am miserably inadequate in this area...but, I don't claim to be anything but who I am..a sinner who falls short, but by the grace and mercy of God, I know that I am loved.

I digress, back to my original thought! There are those people that absolutely are shining stars for God. There is something so special about them, often words can't express what you seeing or experiencing, but you know there is something different about them. And, how awesome is our God that a) He has created these wonderful people and b) that they appear in our simple, everyday lives! I know that when I get my eyebrows done, or on happy hair days, I will be blessed. I know that when I read certain blogs, texts, or Facebook posts, I will be blessed! What an absolute gift! And although, in many ways, these bright stars make my inadequacies seem larger, they are never judgmental; they uplift and encourage! That something "different" that you notice is shared with everyone they interact with, it isn't just saved for Sundays, for just friends, or for their family members; it just naturally oozes from them - WOW!

I am so thankful that God places me in moments to have conversations that remind me of the magnitude of His love and the many gifts He provides me. And along with that, I pray that I can be a morsel to others, what these people are to me. I truly, in my heart, long to be one of those people that other's say, "I can't put my finger on it, but there is something different about her." But, honestly, I don't even know how to go about it. But, everyday is a new day and a new opportunity to be a better me. A chance to make a slight difference in this big world.

Until the next time...the Girl in the Red Bug